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Post by Ella Natalie on Feb 12, 2008 17:28:39 GMT 10
Hey everyone! Just seeking some advice here. Anyway... I've known this guy for quite a while now. I thought I just see him as a friend but when I talk to him more I realise that I really like him. I even tried to forget him but it seems to be not working. Now here's my question... Should I just tell him what I feel about him? or just ignore him forever and maybe (theres a big maybe there) I might forget him. Hmm. But if I tell him what I feel then he might freak out and ignore me.. I'm really confuse HELP! Thanks..  |
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Post by @->- Amy Rose -<-@ on Feb 12, 2008 21:19:36 GMT 10
Are you sure that these feelings are really as deep as you think? It could just be that you feel as though he is a brother to you, but you never know. It happened to me once. I thought I liked someone and it turned out that I only saw him as a brother.
Give it some time and try and understand your feelings more. If, after a while, you realize that these emotions are deep and may never go away, then pluck up the courage to tell him. You never know until you find out for yourself how he'll react.
I just wish you the best of luck. I know how hard it can be. But think it over before you do anything irrational (is that the right word?)
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Feb 13, 2008 0:06:14 GMT 10
i can tell you, over time you can get over anyone... but like amy said, think clearly with your head and don't rush into anything one extra bit to consider, do you consider him a friend and how much does that friendship mean to you? statistically theres a 50/50 chance you'll lose him as a friend if things don't go as planned ****fantasy bit  **** walks into room and catches ella in compromising position... blushes and walks out exclaiming i saw nothing... hehe jk jk ^_^ i'm sure you're not like that *smacks self... stop watching anime like that...* hehe **** end fantasy **** yeah that had no purpose... lol |
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Post by @->- Amy Rose -<-@ on Feb 13, 2008 1:43:33 GMT 10
Way to lighten up the situation Amy xD
Anyway, just take it slowly and steadily
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Post by Ella Natalie on Feb 13, 2008 15:13:06 GMT 10
Hmmm ok... Yeah now that I think about it I think I just saw him as a brother coz I don't have one. I'll get over it. It's probably a brother love. LMAO... Anyways thanks you guys. Oh Amy.. that's funny but I don't think i'm like that or maybe. I don't know. Who knows. Thanks again.. ;D  |
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Post by @->- Amy Rose -<-@ on Feb 14, 2008 2:58:05 GMT 10
No problem As long as you're happy |
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Feb 14, 2008 5:14:13 GMT 10
I don't think i'm like that or maybe. I don't know. Who knows. *runs to SG, gets dirt on Ella, nods a few times, exclaims 'really' loudly a few times, looks shocked, face goes red... tells her say no more..* hehe not really, lol |
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Post by Ella Natalie on Feb 14, 2008 17:12:45 GMT 10
I don't think i'm like that or maybe. I don't know. Who knows. *runs to SG, gets dirt on Ella, nods a few times, exclaims 'really' loudly a few times, looks shocked, face goes red... tells her say no more..* hehe not really, lol AHAHAHAHAHA... But, seriously I might be that kind of person. *cheeky grin* ;D |
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Feb 15, 2008 0:31:19 GMT 10
lol well i'm a light teasing person haha - you'd never of got though |
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Post by Acacia Xara on Feb 20, 2008 4:55:49 GMT 10
Ahahaha, I'm not sure what this means. ^_^; I'm stupid sometimes when it comes to the seemingly cryptic. Is SG the same SG that is my friend and yours? Heheh, I wonder about my capacity sometimes...
Good luck with your boyfriend problems, Ella!
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Feb 24, 2008 2:04:28 GMT 10
lol she directed all us oracle'rs here did little ol supreme goddess... of aussie land, then not show up her self! lol *randomly ponders how i come across so many goddesses and princesses online* lol |
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Post by Acacia Xara on Feb 26, 2008 20:36:58 GMT 10
^ Haha, yes, I gave her a tiny hassle today, but she's now all she has time to do is homework, and wedding preparations. And if it's neither, she's either reading or watching Pride & Prejudice, apparently. She's a nutcase, sometimes. I swear, the tiniest things make her happy. This was a conversation we had: Me: When are you joining the forum? SG: Not now, that's for sure! Me: Then when? SG: Dunno. Me: Why not? SG: Because my days are like this - wake up, homework, go to school, come home frm school, homework, eat, homework, other stuff, sleep. Me: What other stuff could you possibly want to do? SG: Read "Pride & Prejudice". Me: Ugh. SG: Don't say that! It's the most bestest story in the entire world! And I love the film! And Mr Darcy...! Me: Ugh. Alright. Enough said. How many times have you watched it in the last week? SG: Three. *swoon* Me: Ugh. Hahaha. So many goddesses and such, eh? I only have SG... I'm wondering, is that good or bad? |
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Feb 28, 2008 7:46:39 GMT 10
lol i'm not sure how many i've come across now.. 4-5, 2-3 princesses... though one is a goddess in her email only lol
P and P?
*pats back and nods*
i understand, i understand... terrible film...
and as for being good or bad... dunno, maybe i'm lucky, haha
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Post by otakuartistgirl on Mar 30, 2008 14:26:05 GMT 10
^ Haha, yes, I gave her a tiny hassle today, but she's now all she has time to do is homework, and wedding preparations. wedding preperations? sg's getting married? 0_o i sure hope not... my onee-chan's too young! *wails* |
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Post by Protector of the full moon on Apr 3, 2008 4:00:43 GMT 10
*laughs* austrialia is 18 i believe, fear not oag  i think it was her parents wedding... my memory a bit vague now... |
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i think it was her parents wedding... my memory a bit vague now...