Hurray I'm the first to seek advice

[upstairsdowntairs]

Problems with guys much much fun.
ANYWAY, this is so junior high but whatever.
I have had a crush on this guy a while now. My problem is that he avoids me like I'm the living dead. After a while of him never speaking to me (though I dropped large hints to my feelings) I asked him out over the internet a while ago just to see what his response would be. I knew he'd say no, but I wanted to know why. He said it's "just better this way." WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN> I guess I could see it as we were going away to college, but that is such a vague response. I should take the hint and forget him, but I can't. I guess it would be easier to forget him if just flat out told me he wasn't interested. I want to talk to him in person but that opportunity never comes up. I would like to send him my number, but it'll likely end up being ignored. soooo umm any advice ;D ;D

[The Master]

Prolly not good to listen to me, but he sounds more interested in doing something other than dating right now.

Or perhaps he's uncertain.

Guys give vague responses either when they are hiding something and don't want it uncovered, or when they don't have a real answer to begin with.

At least, that's my experience.

[Protector of the full moon]

to be frank i don't think he'd interested if he pays no attention to you and does't speak to you its probably better to try to think of something else so you don't come across desperate, if he's playing mind games on the other hand ignoring him may go well for you, i know its tough when you really like someone and they don't return the feeling but try not to think to much on it for your sanity hun *hugs*

[upstairsdowntairs]

Thanks for the advice. It makes me feel better.

[jwhite]

Yes, I agree with the Protector of the Full Moon, having your feelings un-returned can be painful, but sometimes... You have to just learn from that pain. To clear that up i mean, next time you know to not to get too attatched to a guy who wouldn't like you back. Now you sound like a perfectly sweet girl, i am positive you wont have any trouble attracting other guys, open your eyes and get back into the game tiger