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Post by crystalsharice on Sept 2, 2009 8:19:37 GMT 10
heyaah (: well, i've liked this guy for ages, lets call him john, and well, john lives next door to my aunt, and well i've liked him for about two years now, and i asked him if he fancied me in march, cause all of my friends where telling me to ask him, cause i kept telling them about it all, and well when i asked, he stopped for abit then he said ' yeah a little bit ' and i was like woah, he actually fancies me, but only a bit, and well i asked for a goodbye hug that night, and i hugged him, but he didnt hug me back, so then i just ran into my aunts.. then in april, i kept getting texts of my friends saying ''DO IT'' cause i said to them if he said he fancied me, i'd ask him out, and well after about 20 mins of them texting me saying ''DO IT'' i finally went out side, and knocked on his door, and well his dad answered, and he called john down, and i dont think he was in a good mood, but well i asked him out, and he said no, and i was wondering if it was because of the age difference.. but im not sure, and now i really miss him, cause i really liekd him, and no one understands, and i dont know if i should ignore him, or still talk to him?
thank you, for listening ! xx
spice girls
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Post by jwhite on Jan 1, 2010 17:36:41 GMT 10
Alright... I can tell your one of those girls who when you get attracted to someone you stay attracted to them, thats not a bad thing either. Well first of all, age sometimes does matter depending on the guy. Truthfully if lets say John was a senior and you were a freshman then his friends would give him hell about dating someone so much younger. Whether "John" lets this get to him is up to him. Now i can't tell if John is shy or not but i think that you kinda suprised him with your forwardness asking him if he fancied you, but there is hope for you yet. Let him cool down, lets say a couple of day, maybe two and then i want you to text him. Strike up a conversation with him and once you two are comfertable maybe bring up why he said no. From there, you can determine what to do next. I know what missing a person is like, hell my girlfriend went to Europe for a month. Sometimes being patient pays off, and really i am positive there are nice and sweet guys out there your age. Keep trucking missy.
Sincerly Jonathan
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